tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post1478900581890778001..comments2023-03-26T01:21:14.139-05:00Comments on On the Road to Baby: DIFFERENTGINA and KEVhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02823452837222350546noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-37812766824464922342009-02-26T17:59:00.000-06:002009-02-26T17:59:00.000-06:00You've been tagged for an award. Check out my blog...You've been tagged for an award. Check out my blog!!!Mrs. JDM3https://www.blogger.com/profile/04893386970502306233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-40440497099756500102009-02-26T13:46:00.000-06:002009-02-26T13:46:00.000-06:00I tagged you for an award! Come see my blog!I love...I tagged you for an award! Come see my blog!<BR/><BR/>I love the pics. It's ok if you don't feel any different, I know when we got married I didn't feel any different.<BR/><BR/>~Colleen (cyberrblue.wordpress.com)Colleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07724491513751872199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-10602715545446273382009-02-25T15:43:00.000-06:002009-02-25T15:43:00.000-06:00Hello, thanks for my comment from ICLW. I know wha...Hello, thanks for my comment from ICLW. I know what you mean, people kept asking if I felt different after getting married. I honestly didnt, I just felt very content within.Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16275332224849930573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-45046203995667332672009-02-24T23:19:00.000-06:002009-02-24T23:19:00.000-06:00I can see how confusing it could be in your shoes....I can see how confusing it could be in your shoes. As a Christian, I believe that you and Kevin are blessed and received God's blessing because after all you are still together after all you've been through. My non-Catholic (but one that has a huge respect/love for the Catholic Church) self though is going to tell you not to dwell on it - You were married. You have a strong relationship, so much so that you have renewed your vows in front of God in His church. Going through the covalidation shouldn't make you necessarily feel different. It should not change your barren status. There are a gazillion children born outside of marriage and/or The Church...I don't think God uses superferlity or infertility to teach us lessons. He cares about us, He loves us, He cares about our soul. He cares about the souls of your future children. He cares about the eternal. But, your body is of this earth, and because it's of this earth it's flawed. We're all flawed, just in different ways. I think the two are aspects that are completely seperate and unrelated.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, stay strong my dear. I hope your barren status changes REAL soon.Livhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08846513209156171820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-48787115668528417852009-02-24T19:31:00.000-06:002009-02-24T19:31:00.000-06:00I am not Catholic, so please forgive me for not un...I am not Catholic, so please forgive me for not understanding. If God exists everywhere, then can't you say your vows anywhere in His presence? <BR/><BR/>He is NOT punishing you for not getting married in a specific church. I bet, however, that He is using this journey to bring you to the place He wants you to be.<BR/><BR/>(As He is for all of us, though sometimes it is VERY hard to see. I get frustrated and impatient too!)Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00671922064140460790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-28355063413036677082009-02-24T10:31:00.000-06:002009-02-24T10:31:00.000-06:00I agree with infertilityrocks, if the desire is in...I agree with infertilityrocks, if the desire is in your heart, then you're meant to be a mom. I honestly don't think you were punished because you and your husband didn't get married in a Catholic church. I hope you have a great day!<BR/>*ICLW*Beautiful Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-44566744947710709552009-02-24T10:30:00.000-06:002009-02-24T10:30:00.000-06:00We were married in a Methodist church (despite DH ...We were married in a Methodist church (despite DH being Catholic, I’m nothing really). We’ve considered having our marriage recognized by the catholic church and I’ve wondered some of the same things you have. But considering some small sampling if the less than “qualified” (to say the least) super fertile poppin’ ‘em out when they aren’t married/on drugs/child abusers/etc population... I can’t help but feel that god has turned a blind eye to us on this one... I hope I’m wrong. <BR/><BR/>ICLWAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-68202202629125206782009-02-23T22:32:00.000-06:002009-02-23T22:32:00.000-06:00I'm visiting you after your visit to me earlier to...I'm visiting you after your visit to me earlier today (IF rocks! blog). This is my feeling with God's Will, since I have so many times tried to figure out what the heck God wanted for me and why it seemed He let me suffer for so long:<BR/><BR/>If God didn't want me to be a mother, he would remove that desire from my heart.<BR/><BR/>If you still yearn to be a mother, then God must be wanting it as well. Now, it's just trying to figure out how.<BR/><BR/>ICLW!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6052573822349510779.post-44170369609187636502009-02-23T20:58:00.000-06:002009-02-23T20:58:00.000-06:00I don't necessarily feeling different after we got...I don't necessarily feeling different after we got married. People always asked, "how is married life?" To me, our relationship was the same! You can't blame yourself for your infertility!daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16130275608271804999noreply@blogger.com